GET A LIFE, THEN GET A MAN A Single Woman’s Guide for the Millennium by Jennifer Bawden Professor David Demko, PhD AgeVenture News Service Have you been waiting for Prince Charming to come and sweep you off your feet? Well, the rules have changed and the wait is over. It’s time to take control of your dating destiny. Learn how to find the man you want, without compromising your standards in GET A LIFE, THEN GET A MAN by Jennifer Bawden. Bawden shared her techniques with her friends, and so far, more than thirty weddings and engagements have resulted! If you’re ready to increase your confidence and meet a man worthy of you, then you’re ready to GET A LIFE, THEN GET A MAN. Jennifer Bawden first teaches you how to enjoy being single and focus on your goals so that you can manifest your dreams, and unleash your confidence, passion and power. Then, she shows how to change your conditioning and take a proactive approach to all areas of your life, including your love life. Why wait for a man to make the first move when you can do it yourself, and have more dates than you can handle? The dating revolution has begun! Complete with tips on how to juggle your soon-to-be-filled social calendar, play the field, and avoid the fifteen things women do that turn men off, GET A LIFE, THEN GET A MAN includes everything you need to break the rules and create the life and relationships you want. Bawden even shows how to read people for personality clues, so you can avoid wasting time. The author's list of dating destiny "character types" are list below. Mr. Instant Coffee He’s looking for instant gratification. Exciting, impulsive, irresponsible, and even immoral, his steeping come-on quickly becomes iced. Renaissance Man Comfortable in jeans or a tux, this action man throws himself into his pursuits and is willing to fail. He exudes compassion and warmth. The Fisherman With patience, he delivers the latest lines, lures, and tackles. Never happy with what he’s got, he’s constantly seeking a bigger catch. Mr. Crusader He needs to be needed and is always there for his friends. Be prepared to share him with the rest of the world. The Chameleon He attaches a high level of importance on being accepted; he’s eager to please and avoids conflict, rarely saying no. The Boy Scout He obeys society’s rules and saves his money wisely. He’s always solving everyone else’s problems and feels guilty when he takes, so his own needs go unrecognized. Bond, James Bond He’s not afraid to speak his mind, and enjoys playing devil’s advocate. He’s got all the latest gadgets, and works best alone. The “Whine” Steward He’s focused on accumulating and is judgmental and critical. He’s angry at the world and pulls everyone down with him. Mr. Wonderbread A good friend, his life revolves around habits and rituals. He’s not comfortable with extremes, but is stable and dependable. The Klingon Selfish and self-centered, he believes society owes him. Unconcerned with the burden he places on others, he’s looking for someone to take care of him. The Ferrari Oblivious to his immediate environment, he’s a high-energy, high-maintenance gas guzzler. His ego is huge, and friendships and personal life often take a back seat. The Energizer Bunny Always on battery overdrive, it’s hard for him to slow down and enjoy success. This power-driven bunny never feels he’s accomplished enough. The Rooster Overly self-assertive, he buys into traditional male/female roles. He believes himself to be a ladies man, but is really a chicken when it comes to getting in touch with his emotions. The Bellhop He puts up boundaries and limits his exposure to new people. He’s been hurt before, and is quick to bail out of relationships rather than be hurt again. The Free Spirit Strongly centered, relishes life and relationships, and is happy alone or in a crowd. Top Gun He feeds on autonomous control (no need for a co-pilot) and will do just about anything to get the upper hand and keep it. The French Poodle His identity revolves around his pedigree. Holding himself above others, this man has an unmistakable sense of entitlement. The Chess Player Always scheming and planning, he will achieve his goals at any cost. Manipulative and aggressive, he’s afraid he’ll never have enough or that what he has will be taken away. Mr. Hollywood This attention hog is quickly bored when the attention is not focused on him. Exciting and magnetic, he’s full of energy, but has a deep longing to be loved and accepted. Discover your dating destiny. "GET A LIFE, THEN GET A MAN: A Single Woman’s Guide for the Millennium" by Jennifer Bawden, Penguin Putnam, 2000. In bookstores now. Image credit: Salvatorie' Studios, New York.